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What happens when your image of a person Changes? I’m not talking about physically. But when the person you once knew, bonded with, share tons of memories with, still exist, still is apart of your life but yet, you feel so disconnected from the individual(s).

Or, what about the person who has their own struggles, and though they’re currently in a “good space,” you’re practically waiting for them to derail again because it’s become a cycle within your relationship. How do you handle the Growth, the Transition, the Evolving or the Diminishment of a person(s) who is apart of your life?


I’ve come to learn that Change is apart of life and although all changes aren’t what we deem as “good” or is not conducive to our lives it is the inevitable. People change, Plans change, and the only thing You have control over is How You Respond to it.

In my personal experience, it took a while and at times I still teeter-totter back and forth about accepting or rejecting the change(s) that are happening, but I’ve come to peace with it (Change). I have conversations that I feel need to be had, I decide to not give my energy to circumstances that I feel aren’t going to be in my best interest, and sometimes I sulk about it and then just let “it” go.



“For What Jonique?” Is the question I found myself asking quite a few times in twenty-twenty (2020). If my answer wasn’t “solid” I didn’t respond to whatever situation it was. Be intentional about keeping your Peace even in the midst of Change.




Be the greatest you,
J. Renee

Ecclesiastes 3:1
For everything there is a season, a time for every activity under heaven

Hebrews 13:8
Jesus Christ is the same yesterday and today and forever


Romans 12:18
Do all that you can to live in peace with everyone.